7 Persuasive Reasons Why Men Should Shave Their Privates

Here are seven reasons why men should consider shaving their privates. No, I'm not talking about Privates in the Army, although a "soldier" at attention, with a shiny helmet and a loaded weapon, is definitely involved.

Most men worry obsessively about the hair on their heads but rarely give a second thought to their pubic hair. Only when the time is right with that special lady do men realize they should have spent some time grooming their privates. Guys, here are 7 compelling reasons why you should groom your pubic hair or even remove it completely.

1. Cleanliness. The crotch is a focal point for heat, sweat, and bacteria. Cropping or removing your pubic hair makes that area much easier to keep clean, and more importantly, smelling clean and manly. She's more likely to explore that area up close if it's well maintained.

2. Novelty. The contrast between your obviously adult-sized package and your new hairlessness can be quite erotic, and not just to you! Your lover may gush over the idea of making love to what now has the illusion of being forbidden fruit.

3. It's More Inviting. If you remove most or all of her objections to performing oral sex on you, isn't it worth the trouble? Pay special attention to removing stray hairs from your shaft. Hair in the mouth sucks, but she won't if she finds one.

4. Don't Forget The Scrotum. A woman's body is playground of softness and smoothness, so don't you think she'll appreciate the same on you? A silky smooth ball sack invites both manual and oral caresses. She's far more likely to play down there if she doesn't have to use a weed-whacker to find it.

5. It's Healthier. She'll see immediately that you have no skin outbreaks or unwanted "critters" to hide. Furthermore, you will have greater manual sensitivity when you perform your periodic testicular self-exam. You do examine yourself regularly, don't you? You should. The earlier you catch any problems, the easier they are to fix.

Learn more about Testicular Self Exams (TSE) at http://my.webmd.com/hw/mens_conditions/hw234856.asp

6. It's Fun To Let Her Do It! That's right, let her shave you! This is not only an exercise in trust, but a highly-suspenseful erotic thrill ride. The danger of an ultra sharp razor in such a sensitive area, the tension of long slow razor strokes, the aching of your pulse-pounding erection, and the foamy friction of her shaving-creamed hand on your shaft can intensify your pleasure like you never thought possible. Just don't make any sudden moves.

And most importantly (to some at least):

7. It Makes Your Erection Look Huge. I'm not kidding - you will swear that you gained at least an extra inch in length! If your crotch is not groomed regularly, you probably have pubic hair at least part way up your shaft. Your penis "appears" to begin where that pubic hair ends. Remove the underbrush and your hidden length will be revealed.

When you're grooming the hair on your "big head," don't forget about the hair on the "little head" too! Whether you do it to please yourself or a partner (or both), regular pubic hair grooming or even total pubic hair removal can spice up your love life. If you like it enough, consider permanent removal methods such as laser hair removal or electrolysis.

Note that some people experience moderate to intense itching the first few days after shaving as the pubic hair grows back. You might want your first grooming experience to be at the beginning of a weekend so you're not squirming in your office chair all day Monday! The itching should decrease or stop if you continue to groom yourself regularly.

And if the guys in the gym locker room make fun of you, first ask them why they are checking out your package. In the embarrassed silence that follows, tell them why you did it, that you're having twice as much sex as they are, and what she's doing now that she wouldn't do before! Then get ready to answer their questions.

Ladies Wide Fitting Shoes - 3 Reasons You Should Wear Shoes That Are the Right Size

Are you wondering if you should wear ladies wide fitting shoes? In this article I am going to give you 3 reasons you should wear shoes that are the right size.

If you are like me then at first you might not have wanted to admit that you had wide feet. I didn't even like to go shoe shopping with my friends since they had these little size 4 narrow shoes and I would whisper that I needed a size 9 wide or I would try to cram my foot into something smaller just to fit in. This was not a good idea.

Reason #1 - Hammertoes

Have you ever seen someone wearing flip flop and their toes were curled around to the side or they seemed to curl under? This is commonly known as the hammertoe. You can develop this by either wearing shoes that are too small or too narrow for you.

Reason #2 - Bad Circulation

By wearing shoes that are actually too narrow for you you can cause yourself to have bad circulation. If you know about reflexology you know that your feet as connected to all parts of your body. Be kind to your feet and you will be healthier.

Reason #3 - Corns

There are many ladies that have gotten corns on the side of their feet from wear too narrow of a shoe. It usually shoes up on your little toe and it is not at all attractive.

So be kind to your feet and invest in some ladies wide fitting shoes.

Midlife Crisis? 8 Reasons to Embrace Your Insanity

Governor Sanford, Mel Gibson, and 38 million men in their midlife can't all be wrong! Midlife crisis (Or midlife transformation if you are a Buddhist or Zen expert) is a temporary situation. Your life isn't over, but by the time your crisis is, you'll be three years closer to the grave. Before you take up oil painting or adrenaline-based activities like bungee jumping or hiring hookers in Panama, take a breath and take a break.

Not sure if you are in a midlife crisis? Have you had thoughts such as:

oYou are seriously thinking about "hiring a pro" next time you are in Vegas.  
oYou recently looked in the mirror and saw your grandad.  
oYour wife is not appealing to you anymore (and Stacey in accounting definitely is!)  
oYour never made time for that cross country tour with your friends.  
oYour sex drive is waning or you just can't go as long as you did a few years ago.  
oYour wife and you have drifted apart and don't share the same enthusiasm for life.  
oYou flirt more than before and/or you have looked at more porn than usual.  
oYou used to be the happiest guy in the room, now you fight bouts of depression.  
oYour midsection is flabby no matter how much you diet or exercise  
oYou think more about the past than the future.  

Hello, chump...you are in a midlife crisis!  

A midlife crisis cannot be treated like any problem or challenge previously experienced. There is no article, book, or therapy session that will fix it all today. Going to a fantasy ball camp or going across the country on Harley's with your friends won't fix it all by itself either. The journey one must go through is just that-a journey. In order to come out of this phase BETTER, STRONGER and HAPPIER one will need to reflect, grow, and map out their personal journey. Here are 8 tips to help you cry, rejoice or stay miserable:

1.    Stop reading stories about success! When a guy in MLC (midlife crisis) reads about some 11 year old learning to fly airplanes or some 28 year old billionaire, not only is it an EXTREME exception, it makes us normal guys physically sick. Read about Colonel Sanders from Kentucky Fried Chicken or Ray Kroc who founded McDonald's. These guys didn't hit their business stride until their MLC was over, and their pecker was gathering dust.  

2.    Share ALL your perverted thoughts with your spouse. Don't hold back. Who cares that you "thought" about a three-some when you were in Vegas! Studies have shown that 82% of guys fantasize about it, 17% pull it off, and only 1% talk to their spouses about ANYTHING! Be a contrarian and let her know. That way she won't be surprised if you leave her for a Peruvian cage dancer. Who knows, she may be one of the 12% of women who will entertain the idea of a three-some!

3.    Take some time every day to reflect, think, and beat off. Listen, your life may be at a crossroad and you may decide to keep sucking up to your boss and stay with your frumpy wife. Hell, you may even elect not to get a hooker, stay faithful and suck it up, so at least take some amount of time for yourself and be happy for 8-10 minutes!  

4.    Definitely exercise more. Your MLC isn't because the world is moving faster than your Nike's, it is because you have one Florsheim in the grave already. Don't worry, dude, everybody returns to their youth, and just because you may be wearing diapers in a few years doesn't mean you can't have a sexy nurse feed you your oatmeal or leave a good looking corpse. The more you convert your frustration and anxiety into meaningful exercise, the better you will feel. Plus, if you decide to get a divorce your chances of landing a nubile 29 year old with father issues instead of your mom's friends increases ten-fold.  

5.    Don't hire an escort. It is simple psychology, really. You are getting old and your body craves young, fertile females to breed with. If you are married, you run a few risks (Duh!). I shouldn't have to remind you, but since your brain has relocated 4 inches below your belt, you need a reminder. Your 15 minutes of pleasure will be a temporary escape from the reality of your age. You didn't REALLY impress her, Chuck. You aren't REALLY going to marry Julia Roberts like in Pretty Woman. (Unless you look like Richard Gere and have a few million of disposable cash)

6.    Cry every once in a while in front of your wife. Go ahead, let go and let it out. When the guys get together, we won't share THAT information! But when you let your guard down in front of her, she'll see your vulnerability, get in touch with your sensitive side, and probably give you a hummer. In any case, you'll win points for sharing and you deserve some kind of reward for that!  Who knows? Maybe she will give up her fantasy with the pool boy and learn pole dancing for you! My wife did...you can read about it at Make Your Wife Hot 

7.    Find a person or venue to vent...really vent. Of all the things that will make you feel better temporarily (including physical exercise, basket weaving, or blowing stuff up) the ability to talk it out, scream, or just get the crap out of your head is very important. Many of us tend to ponder the same garbage over and over again in our brains. Dumping those thoughts either on paper, to a therapist, or a non-judgmental friend is important. (NOTE: Be sure not to dump TOO much on your buddy, otherwise you may bore him to death as he pretends to care about your garbage. Or worse, he may open up and share how HIS life is even more miserable than yours!)  

8.    Read a few articles on midlife transformation (Eastern philosophy). The word midlife crisis is used as a Western reference point only. It isn't really a crisis in the grand scheme of things, after all. You haven't lost your kids and brothers in a Nazi concentration camp, chump. It's just that our society has paved the way for you to have SO MUCH free time, that you can actually do something with your life, if you want to. Our great grandfathers were too busy working 90 hours per week to notice they were going to croak at 48. Your situation gives you the GIFT of a second life. Don't cry too much about it. You really can take up skeet shooting as a career as long as you've socked away a few bucks for the trailer home in Okeechobee.  

-Doug Steponin